Happy Friday and welcome to 2024!
Every New Year I find myself wondering how in the world it could already be a new year?! I inevitably find myself thinking about all of what I wanted to accomplish in the previous year, and I’m sometimes disappointed with myself for not meeting all of my expectations. I know that for many, the new year brings resolutions and promises for changes to ourselves and our world.
I’ve been wondering what resolutions from a Unitarian Universalist perspective might look like. As I was searching through UU websites, reading what other UU resources have pertaining to resolutions, new years, fresh starts, I came across this really powerful piece by Beth Monhollen on the UU World website that I had to share with all of you. May we remember these words and the community we find in this space as we journey into this new year together.
Blessings friends,
Rev. Kelli
In this new year, may we leave behind the weight of unfulfilled resolutions, of unrealized dreams, and of unrealistic expectations.
May we unpack the heavy weight of stories that tell us we are unworthy and unlovable.
May we remember that we each carry inside of us a spark of the Divine.
In this new year,
May we carry kindness, gentleness and hope that hold us through even the hardest days and the most daunting risks.
May we carry the weight of memory that reminds us of who we are, and the weight of spirit that reminds us we are still becoming.
May we carry the seed of knowledge that teaches us that improvement and growth aren’t linear and individualistic but are cyclical and communal.
May we carry the wisdom to seek rest and connection, to lean into mutual care.
May we carry the certain belief that when we have patterns of thinking and behaving that harm ourselves and others, we can seek resources that will help us move towards healing.
May we carry the knowledge that happiness and success take many shapes and one of those shapes is purpose.
May we carry purpose lightly, trusting that it changes and evolves and surprises us.
May we carry curiosity, wonder, and the ability to be surprised.
This year, may we carry space for all of our flaws, all of our longings, and all of our love, remembering that the truly daring adventure of life is not to be better-better-best! but to show up wholly, authentically, lovingly as ourselves.
May we carry these prayers and carry each other into the new year.